Monday, January 1, 2018

Letting Go

Joy is the elixir of a happy and productive life. Worry robs you of the opportunity to have joy - it creates a negative emotional state that darkens all that you see.

For me, letting go simply means understanding what to accept and what to work to change.

"Life is lumpy. And a lump in the oatmeal, a lump in the throat, and a lump in a breast are not the same lump. One should learn the difference." Robert Fulghum


Minus Fahrenheit

It's cold.

There are no degrees to be had outdoors. In fact, there are minus degrees outside, so you start at a degree deficit just to get to 0 degrees Fahrenheit. It was -6 degrees F when I woke up this morning.

What woke me up was my wife telling me the pipes froze in our upstairs bathroom. We have lived in this house (built in 1920) for three winters and in two of those our hot water feed to the second floor has frozen. Not much to do but apply heat and wait. Hopefully no burst pipes.

It's really cold.

Sunday, December 31, 2017

New Year

Despite the cold, I enjoy this time of year. Days are lengthening, even if slowly. There is a sense of revival and new beginnings to life.

I make no resolutions, although I like to re-examine what I want in my life. For me, this requires a thoughtful approach to my choices and opportunities. Without a commitment to considering what it is you want, you will continue to ride the wave of fate. Fate may or may not be kind, but the point is you will not be moving toward your conscious choices. You will simply be responding to events around you.

I spent some time this morning revising my fundamental and primary choices. It's a work in progress, but simply making adjustments based on what I have achieved and new emerging goals has me feeling optimistic.

Happy New Year


“You are a creator for whom all things are possible, and you create through the focus of your thoughts, your words and the actions that you take- enabling metaphysical principles and an intelligent Universe to conspire on your behalf.”  Mike Dooley

Cold - Very cold

It's bitterly cold here in the northeastern US. Temperatures have been hovering at and below zero for multiple days and there's no sign of relief in the near future. If you must venture out, bundle up and make it quick.

Cold weather is far more dangerous than hot weather to humans. More people die from exposure to cold than to heat. Intuitively, this makes sense. On the hottest day (say 100 degrees or so), the temperature is essentially 15 degrees above comfort level. On the coldest day (we had temps of -8 degrees the other morning), we were 93 degrees below that same comfort temp. Brrrrr.

Stay warm.

Saturday, June 10, 2017

Progressive Candidates

Maybe it's the optimist in me. Maybe it's my deep progressive roots. Maybe it's my sense of history. Maybe it's my hope for a better world.

But I'm feeling like there's a reckoning coming to the world-wide nationalistic, austerity-driven worldview. I could also be wrong.

If I'm right, Cathy Glasson from Iowa is on the leading edge of a progressive revival.




Sunday, June 4, 2017

Give Me A Good Tactic

People aren't filled with apathy. They do care. People do want better lives for themselves, their children and their neighbors. No one wants to struggle to put food on the table or to keep a roof over the heads of loved ones.

What's happened, in my view, is there is a large group of people who have given up. They see no hope in challenging the system so they come home from work, lock the door, pull the shades and pump in hours and hours of broadcast anesthesia. Absent a movement with a message of where we need to go and effective tactics/strategies to get there, we are not going to recruit anyone to our cause.

In many ways, our movement organizations own this. We certainly understand how to agitate people - there are no shortages of injustices in the world. What we lack is a convincing program to challenge the power structures. How will our actions be effective? What can we say about the outcome? There are times when you simply have to protest because it is righteous, but does anyone really want to participate in a one-off event to be waited out by the power structure?

Collective action does not guarantee results, but it is the only action that produces results. The same group that many believe are apathetic are there to be persuaded, waiting for inspiration and tactics that work. This is our job moving forward.

People rise up and power structures double-down. Change requires coercive demand for change. To create an effective demand for change, we need people power. To get people power, we need a clear message and convincing strategy to move people in our direction. To do this, our communications should be on the Why, and our organizers and committed volunteers need to focus on the How to recruit our people power.

Both are needed. Why and How.

Saturday, June 3, 2017

ODD

One of my values is taking ownership for mistakes. I value it in myself and others, and it raises flags for me when others deflect and blame. The challenge, and the reason for the warning flags is an unwillingness to take ownership necessarily creates obstacles to growth and development. You cannot fix a vulnerability unless you expose it.

Another value of mine is not defining people by their worst moments. At first look, these might seem incongruous values but they're not - in fact, I would say that understanding this about me should help in overcoming any hesitation in working through mistakes. Taking ownership with someone who understands we all have our worst moments creates growth opportunities for all involved.

I suppose there are lots of reasons why people deflect and blame others for their own imperfections. A close friend who I've shared some of these challenges with has shared back with me something called oppositional defiant disorder. My friend was mostly talking about Donald what's-his-name, but I didn't have to look far to see some closer examples.